The Art of Embodied Relationships
A 3-PART experience
for high achieving women (single or in relationship) ready to own their desire to be claimed, open up to love, and inspire the best in him
The Art of Embodied Relationships
A 3-PART experience
for high achieving women (single or in relationship) ready to own their desire to be claimed, open up to love, and inspire the best in him
This 3 part experience on Maturing into your Full Feminine Expression is for all women, whether you’re single and desire to call powerful beloved or in relationship and desire to inspire the best of his Masculine in your current partner
3 Part Experience
Part 1: THE ART OF INNER UNION
- Creating inner safety as a core element to reclaiming wholeness and moving away from co-dependent relationships
- Mature / Immature Feminine and Masculine energies
- How to hold yourself when your heart is in pain AND stay open as love?
- Woman as an oyster vs woman as as apricot
- How will the evolution of you inner union between your Inner Masculine & Feminine will be very accurately reflected in your outer union?
PART 2: THE ART OF EMBODIED RELATIONSHIPS
- Choosing yourself & increasing your self-worth in relationship
- Mainstream / “matrix” relationship vs an embodied relationship
- Compatibility in a couple & identifying your relationship non-negotiables in relationship
- Change happens in the body!
- An embodiment practice to begin dissolving the armour around your heart so that you can let love in
PART 3: SEXUAL POLARITY
- Polarity is pure energetics, spontaneous, looks different for each person and in every moment
- 4 keys to inspire the best in him using the art of sexual polarity (not by telling him what to do or how to be)
- Polarity involves two beings polarising into opposite energies. We do this to liberate MORE LOVE in the field, not to manipulate or please the other
- Loss of sexual desire is a polarity issue, not a relationship issue
- Polarity killers vs polarity “enhancers”
What this is not…
This is not just another page that you’ll blindly scroll through…and get away without consulting your heart oracle (at least not in my world, gorgeous!)
I am not inviting you to join yet another Masterclass that you’ll sign up for and never watch
And when we meet for the 3 days, rest assured that I won’t show any keynote at an attempt to impress you with my knowledge – my energy talks louder than my words and you’ll feel that
Here’s the thing, my love
Your next quantum leap, your orgasm, your sacred union won’t come about by stuffing more knowledge into your mind
I know how precious your time is, so I designed this to be an 3 part experience that will give you a taste of living an Erotically Embodied life
During our time together will leave your body and heart feeling more open, responsive, and radiant – these are the deeper qualities of the Feminine you won’t acquire by thinking or reading about them
I’m all about embodiment (which something that stays with you) and less about new knowledge through the mind (because your Feminine body wisdom gets unraveled in very different ways)
I know how precious your time is, so I designed this to be an part day experience that will give you a taste of living an Erotically Embodied life
During our time together will leave your body and heart feeling more open, responsive, and radiant – these are the deeper qualities of the Feminine you won’t acquire by thinking or reading about them
I’m all about embodiment (which something that stays with you) and less about new knowledge through the mind (because your Feminine body wisdom gets unraveled in very different ways)
Why do you need to join this experience?
Because there’s a plethora of us who have forgotten how to love
And if you stop, truly stop for a few days, you’ll find that this…”unlove” aches in your very bones
Being a woman, you intuit that you’re capable of experiencing a full body orgasm, a cosmic sexual merging with a beloved, but the path to get there has been lost in oblivion
Being there myself, I know that living disconnected from our heart, Feminine energy, and sexuality—all being our natural essence—simply hurts for we’re not being whole
So what do we do instead to cover up this disconnection from our Feminine?
If you’re like me in the past, you may tried all the substitutes for love that momentarily give us a high of connection and relaxation—wine, parties, mediocre dates, self-love courses ‘to fix myself’, binging on movies, vibrators, shopping, tobacco, substances etc
We fear slowing down in life because deep down there’s SO MUCH
Whenever someone (even our partner) gets too close, we shut down, criticize, or do whatever we can in order to avoid being seen in our vulnerability, our imperfectly perfect humanness
And, let’s be honest here…
Being a high achieving woman, you’d rather spend another hour working, building your empire, pouring another cup of coffee than feeling your stormy Feminine ocean
❦ But is working more your truest, deepest desire, beloved?
If you’re like me in the past, you may tried all the substitutes for love that momentarily give us a high of connection and relaxation—wine, parties, mediocre dates, self-love courses ‘to fix myself’, binging on movies, vibrators, shopping, tobacco, substances etc
We fear slowing down in life because deep down there’s SO MUCH
Whenever someone (even our partner) gets too close, we shut down, criticize, or do whatever we can in order to avoid being seen in our vulnerability, our imperfectly perfect humanness
And, let’s be honest here…
Being a high achieving woman, you’d rather spend another hour working, building your empire, pouring another cup of coffee than feeling your stormy Feminine ocean
❦ But is working more your truest, deepest desire, beloved?
Here’s the KEY to your Feminine Awakening, love
It’s not just about doing another emotional release to access your sacred rage (though it’s a wonderful first step)
There’s something even more vulnerable…
❦ It’s owning your immensely powerful desire to be cherished, desired, and chosen
Firstly, by ourselves, then by a beloved
❦ It takes so much courage to admit that even if we can do everything on your own…we choose not to
❦ Owning our desire to be claimed, led, and held is the first step to embody your Mature Feminine
“Louelle learnt how to tap into sexual energy whenever she wants and
reconnect to parts of herself she had not felt for 12 years.”
“Before starting coaching with Aurika, I felt emotionally and sexually stuck. I was resistant but quite soon Aurika was able to guide me to emotions and places that I wouldn’t go that easily by myself and this gave me a lot of trust to embark on this journey with her. Aurika came as a blessing! I am in awe. Aurika guided me in such a safe and empowering way that I was able to go not only to spaces where I wouldn’t have been able to go by myself, but even to spaces I didn’t even know existed.
During our time together, I decided to have my IUD removed as I felt all the tension it was causing in my cervix. Aurika helped me release the anger and the resentment that came out during this process–I was able to feel a lot of power as a result of this. Thus, my journey has been about healing, especially my pelvic area and my Yoni. I was able to reconnect with parts of my being that I had not felt for 12 years. I was able to reconnect with my sexual energy in a way that I had not imagined. It had been dormant for such a long time! And now I can easily tap into my sexual energy whenever I want. I don’t need to wait for it to magically just happen.
For the first time in my life, I was able to receive love for myself. Not in the mechanical way I was doing it before (eg pampering myself in a superficial way), but truly receiving love from myself in my heart. Moreover, Aurika also guided me through couple practices which created a deeper intimate relationship with my partner and opened our connection for more pleasure.
I now feel like sexual energy moves through my body. I can step into it. I show up for myself. I feel really transformed, so much more present and so much happier. I wish all the women in the world to be guided in such a loving and empowering way as Aurika guided meme.”
Louelle
Netherlands
“Before working with Aurika, I had done a lot of work in the field of sexuality, tantra, spirituality, meditation, and yoga. I’m not a beginner in this area and I was wondering if it was going to be worth it? I decided to dive in with Aurika and I’m so happy I did—she helped to navigate this “jungle” so that I could find my inner strength and my own answers.”
“As a result of this, many areas in my life have shifted. I met my new partner a couple of months ago and it’s been so beautiful to get all the relationship tools. Aurika has been an important part of my relationship journey. I had never been even close to having such an intimate relationship with a man before.
I work as a classical singer and for a long time, I had been feeling so tired, even thinking about quitting my career. But we even had an entire coaching session about that and Aurika gave me new tools to use when I feel negative energies at work. It’s making all the difference! It’s fantastic that our coaching went beyond sexuality and spirituality.
A couple of weeks ago (after our coaching), I found myself feeling stressed and I was falling out of my daily practice. So I just went back to listen to one of my coaching sessions with Aurika and looked at the toolbox that we developed together. That was enough to walk my way back to the balance that I had two months ago when I finished the program! It’s amazing to know that I have the power myself; that I’m in charge of my own life.
I highly highly highly recommend working with Aurika!”
Maria Demérus
Professional singer & vocal coach, Sweden
The 3-Part experience is called The Art of Embodied Relationships but I have not yet spoken about relating with another
Because firstly, it’s about the Art of self-knowing, self-choosing, and self-sourcing
By choosing yourself first…
☯ You’ll discover all the secret crevices in your body that are ready to be worshipped and awakened sexually
☯ You’ll learn to hold yourself the way you want your beloved to hold you
☯ You’ll trust yourself enough to soften your edges, dissolve the armour in your heart so that you can LET LOVE IN
This the beginning of opening to deep devotional love which, I believe, is the most beautiful experience we can have as humans
It doesn’t matter how many millions you’ll be making, how many empires you’ll be building, how many hours you’ll spend working even if when it’s your soul’s calling
…Without a sense of connection, belonging, feeling safe and supported
…Without feeling loved and accepted in our messy humanniness
…Without tapping into the most potent creative fuel, your divine sexuality
Your Feminine heart will be still aching…
And she won’t settle for anything less than deep, wild, all-dissolving love
I invite you to join The Art of Embodied Relationships…
Not because you have ‘work on yourself’
But because you GET TO step into your Full Mature Feminine expression
I don’t claim that a 3 part experience will help you call in your King or save your relationship that’s been withering away in a dry season for way too long
Being a coach in integrity I make no false promises
What I am sure of, however, is that my 3-part experience will give you both clarity and self-trust to:
✔ Soften your edges
✔ Rewire the stories you hold around love and men
✔ Begin to own your desire for extraordinary love where you feel fully met (whether you’re single or in relationship)
✔ Start practicing the Art of Polarity
I don’t claim that a 3 part experience will help you call in your King or save your relationship that’s been withering away in a dry season for way too long
Being a coach in integrity I make no false promises
What I am sure of, however, is that my 3-part experience will give you both clarity and self-trust to:
✔ Soften your edges
✔ Rewire the stories you hold around love and men
✔ Begin to own your desire for extraordinary love where you feel fully met (whether you’re single or in relationship)
✔ Start practicing the Art of Polarity
More about your facilitator
Aurika Valan is a women’s sexuality coach and a creatrix of transformational spaces that enable people to experience the depth of their raw, uncensored Truth. It is her deepest soul’s calling to serve fellow sisters and brothers when it comes to awakening consciousness in our sexuality.
Based on extensive self-practice, Tantra and Taoism inspired trainings, and also living immersed in conscious community life, Aurika offers a uniquely embodied, down-to-earth approach. She loves depth and WHOLEistic transformation where merging our sexuality, body, and heart becomes an embodied form of prayer.
Apart from facilitating in person journeys, her main line of work is through 1-on-1 and group coaching. She has a particular passion to empower women. Therefore, she created the Heroine’s Journey into Sexual Awakening which is a condensed 5-month Initiation for women to jumpstart their sexual awakening and create self-love that lasts.
