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The other day, I overheard two incredible men talking about the Feminine & her… emotions @ifrankjosephiv said, "How incredible is it to witness a woman in her raw emotions?" @kev_oroszlan responded, "Yes, it's like watching...nature" Note, they didn't say "I love hearing a woman talk about her emotions" It was about her capacity to FEEL DEEPLY. And staying open as she's feeling. Even though feeling fully is one of the core Feminine qualities, so often we bypass our emotions by talking about them—explaining, complaining, overanalyzing etc. The amount of processing is inversely proportional to the level of sexual polarity in a couple👀. That is… want more sexual chemistry? Spend less time processing & more time actually feeling. Feeling fully is an Art Form. Here are 2 core principles: ❤️‍🔥 TRANSMUTING Circulate the raw emotion & its associated sensations (eg the pulse of anger in your solar plexus, knot in your belly, stuckness in your throat) by breathing into them, sounding them & moving your body. Then you'll notice how your emotions get transmuted from denser to lighter frequencies. Your anger may transform to grief, grief to love. Which then dissolves back to nothingness...and everythingness. Finding inner freedom through feeling. ❤️‍🔥 STAYING OPEN There's an art of feeling your pain without collapsing, analysing or going to story. You can feel your Niagara falls vibrating through your whole body… without shutting down. You flush your heart from anything that's not love, whilst staying connected to your core, your womb, your heart. 〰️ This is your Inner Union 〰️ Your Inner Feminine is feeling & expanding. Your Inner Masculine is holding the awareness & the structure for her to relax into. Over time, you'll notice that opening as love even in the most intense, pulsing heat of anger can feel 0rgasmic. It's just life moving through you—it's neither good nor bad. Just an ocean of energy that eventually brings you back to you who you are. Freedom. Love. God. 〰️〰️〰️ Does this resonate, fellow beings? Send me some 🔥 if it does xx 📸 @beseenandbloom
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The other day, I overheard two incredible men talking about the Feminine & her… emotions

@ifrankjosephiv said, "How incredible is it to witness a woman in her raw emotions?"

@kev_oroszlan responded, "Yes, it's like watching…nature"

Note, they didn't say "I love hearing a woman talk about her emotions"

It was about her capacity to FEEL DEEPLY.

And staying open as she's feeling.

Even though feeling fully is one of the core Feminine qualities, so often we bypass our emotions by talking about them—explaining, complaining, overanalyzing etc.

The amount of processing is inversely proportional to the level of sexual polarity in a couple👀.

That is… want more sexual chemistry?

Spend less time processing & more time actually feeling.

Feeling fully is an Art Form. Here are 2 core principles:

❤️‍🔥 TRANSMUTING

Circulate the raw emotion & its associated sensations (eg the pulse of anger in your solar plexus, knot in your belly, stuckness in your throat) by breathing into them, sounding them & moving your body.

Then you'll notice how your emotions get transmuted from denser to lighter frequencies.

Your anger may transform to grief, grief to love.

Which then dissolves back to nothingness…and everythingness.

Finding inner freedom through feeling.

❤️‍🔥 STAYING OPEN

There's an art of feeling your pain without collapsing, analysing or going to story.

You can feel your Niagara falls vibrating through your whole body… without shutting down.

You flush your heart from anything that's not love, whilst staying connected to your core, your womb, your heart.

〰️ This is your Inner Union 〰️

Your Inner Feminine is feeling & expanding. Your Inner Masculine is holding the awareness & the structure for her to relax into.

Over time, you'll notice that opening as love even in the most intense, pulsing heat of anger can feel 0rgasmic.

It's just life moving through you—it's neither good nor bad.

Just an ocean of energy that eventually brings you back to you who you are.

Freedom. Love. God.

〰️〰️〰️
Does this resonate, fellow beings? Send me some 🔥 if it does xx

📸 @beseenandbloom

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𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐃𝐎 𝐎𝐍𝐄 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐈𝐒 𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐃𝐎 𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐑𝐘𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐆⠀ ⠀ How deeply you surrender on the dance floor is how wholeheartedly you surrender in the bedroom ⠀ How worthy you feel of receiving compliments is how freely you receive financial abundance ⠀ How carefully you listen to your friend is how deeply you hear the Divine within you ⠀ How comfortable you’re with your own pain will be reflected in how you respond to the pain of others How tall and open you stand in a queue is how spacious your thoughts are ⠀ How mindfully you eat a delicious meal is how presently you caress the body of your beloved ♾️ Let’s complete the list⠀ 𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩’𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧: ⠀ 𝙃𝙊𝙒 𝙔𝙊𝙐 ___ 𝙄𝙎 𝙃𝙊𝙒 𝙔𝙊𝙐 ___? 📷 @beseenandbloom
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𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐃𝐎 𝐎𝐍𝐄 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐈𝐒 𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐃𝐎 𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐑𝐘𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐆⠀
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How deeply you surrender on the dance floor is how wholeheartedly you surrender in the bedroom
⠀
How worthy you feel of receiving compliments is how freely you receive financial abundance
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How carefully you listen to your friend is how deeply you hear the Divine within you
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How comfortable you’re with your own pain will be reflected in how you respond to the pain of others

How tall and open you stand in a queue is how spacious your thoughts are
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How mindfully you eat a delicious meal is how presently you caress the body of your beloved

♾️

Let’s complete the list⠀

𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩’𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧: ⠀
𝙃𝙊𝙒 𝙔𝙊𝙐 ___ 𝙄𝙎 𝙃𝙊𝙒 𝙔𝙊𝙐 ___?

📷 @beseenandbloom

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I want you to hear Maria’s story “Before working with Aurika, I had done a lot of work in the field of sexuality, tantra, spirituality, meditation, and yoga. I’m not a beginner in this area and I was wondering if it was going to be worth it? I decided to dive in with Aurika and I’m so happy I did—she helped to navigate this “jungle” so that I could find my inner strength and my own answers. As a result of this, many areas in my life have shifted. I met my new partner a couple of months ago and it’s been so beautiful to get all the relationship tools. Aurika has been an important part of my relationship journey. I had never been even close to having such an intimate relationship with a man before! I work as a classical singer and for a long time, I had been feeling so tired, even thinking about quitting my career. Instead, Aurika gave me new tools to use when I feel challenged at work. It’s making all the difference! It’s fantastic that our coaching went beyond sǝxuality and spirituality. On top of that, a couple of weeks ago (after our coaching), I found myself feeling stressed and I was falling out of my daily practice. So I just went back to listen to one of my coaching sessions with Aurika - that was enough to walk my way back to the deep balance I felt two months ago, when I finished the program! It’s amazing to know that I have the power within myself; that I’m in charge of my own life. I highly highly highly recommend working with Aurika!” – Maria, Classical Singer. Sweden 🌹 Curious to see what's available for you once you begin awakening the power you're literally sitting on... right now ? (#youknowwhatimean) And then channeling your newly awakened sǝxual, emotional & feminine energies into the rest of your life—intimate relationships, self-love, business creativity, finding God in sǝx. Drop me a DM saying 'curious'. I'll ask you some powerful questions, and if I feel that I can support you, we'll jump on a call. Simple! Love fiercely, Aurika
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I want you to hear Maria’s story

“Before working with Aurika, I had done a lot of work in the field of sexuality, tantra, spirituality, meditation, and yoga.

I’m not a beginner in this area and I was wondering if it was going to be worth it?

I decided to dive in with Aurika and I’m so happy I did—she helped to navigate this “jungle” so that I could find my inner strength and my own answers.

As a result of this, many areas in my life have shifted. I met my new partner a couple of months ago and it’s been so beautiful to get all the relationship tools.

Aurika has been an important part of my relationship journey. I had never been even close to having such an intimate relationship with a man before!

I work as a classical singer and for a long time, I had been feeling so tired, even thinking about quitting my career.

Instead, Aurika gave me new tools to use when I feel challenged at work. It’s making all the difference!

It’s fantastic that our coaching went beyond sǝxuality and spirituality.

On top of that, a couple of weeks ago (after our coaching), I found myself feeling stressed and I was falling out of my daily practice.

So I just went back to listen to one of my coaching sessions with Aurika – that was enough to walk my way back to the deep balance I felt two months ago, when I finished the program!

It’s amazing to know that I have the power within myself; that I’m in charge of my own life.

I highly highly highly recommend working with Aurika!”

– Maria, Classical Singer. Sweden

🌹 Curious to see what's available for you once you begin awakening the power you're literally sitting on… right now ? (#youknowwhatimean)

And then channeling your newly awakened sǝxual, emotional & feminine energies into the rest of your life—intimate relationships, self-love, business creativity, finding God in sǝx.

Drop me a DM saying 'curious'. I'll ask you some powerful questions, and if I feel that I can support you, we'll jump on a call. Simple!

Love fiercely,
Aurika

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Abortion as a Rite of Passage Every November, I find myself engulfed in tears of grief. I grieve & crack open in devotion to my unborn child. He would have been born this month. My womb knows it's a he. Today, it was THAT day of November. I am not a mother, but my body carries the unconditional love that all mothers speak about & that love is for the child I decided not to have. I was 17. I was in my first relationship with a wonderful Frenchman. We were together for three years. I will never forget the day when I found out that I was pregnant. We were in Paris; he had planned a whole week of activities for us. I remember being at the exquisitely gorgeous Paris Opera House to hear Diana Damrau sing (I usually don't even recall movie names, but of course from that day I remember everything). Diana's celestial voice felt like an angelic background for the horrendous voice in my head: "My life is over. My life is over. My life is over"... Yes, that early phase of my life was over. That week my soul grew up by many years. Like for all women, the experience was deeply traumatic. I was so young, with no tools for healing or support apart from my partner at the time. I know I made the right choice. It was one of the most important Rites of Passage in my life. And it took me YEARS to figure out how to heal from the experience, find forgiveness, & let go of any unhealthy cords to the baby's soul I was holding onto. About 1 out of 4 pregnancies end in abortion. Can you imagine the immensity grief in the collective feminine because of that? This morning the river of my sacred tears asked me to do a ceremony for women ready to transmute their abortion pain into love & a Rite of Passage. It'll be a low cost event & all the money gathered will be donated to a women's non-profit org. My womb will guide the creation of this ceremony at her own pace 🌹more details coming soon. For now, you can sign up for the waitlist. Link in my bio. 💠 Please share the event with anyone who may need this 💠 PS. I am grateful for this experience. I need no consoling or sympathy. If this topic triggers you, I'm not available for any projections. Love, Aurika
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Abortion as a Rite of Passage

Every November, I find myself engulfed in tears of grief.

I grieve & crack open in devotion to my unborn child. He would have been born this month. My womb knows it's a he.

Today, it was THAT day of November.

I am not a mother, but my body carries the unconditional love that all mothers speak about & that love is for the child I decided not to have.

I was 17. I was in my first relationship with a wonderful Frenchman. We were together for three years.

I will never forget the day when I found out that I was pregnant.

We were in Paris; he had planned a whole week of activities for us.

I remember being at the exquisitely gorgeous Paris Opera House to hear Diana Damrau sing (I usually don't even recall movie names, but of course from that day I remember everything).

Diana's celestial voice felt like an angelic background for the horrendous voice in my head:

"My life is over. My life is over. My life is over"…

Yes, that early phase of my life was over. That week my soul grew up by many years.

Like for all women, the experience was deeply traumatic. I was so young, with no tools for healing or support apart from my partner at the time.

I know I made the right choice.

It was one of the most important Rites of Passage in my life.

And it took me YEARS to figure out how to heal from the experience, find forgiveness, & let go of any unhealthy cords to the baby's soul I was holding onto.

About 1 out of 4 pregnancies end in abortion. Can you imagine the immensity grief in the collective feminine because of that?

This morning the river of my sacred tears asked me to do a ceremony for women ready to transmute their abortion pain into love & a Rite of Passage.

It'll be a low cost event & all the money gathered will be donated to a women's non-profit org.

My womb will guide the creation of this ceremony at her own pace 🌹more details coming soon.

For now, you can sign up for the waitlist. Link in my bio.

💠 Please share the event with anyone who may need this 💠

PS. I am grateful for this experience. I need no consoling or sympathy. If this topic triggers you, I'm not available for any projections.

Love,
Aurika

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The Sacred Pause Yesterday I sat in a woman’s circle where one powerful, highly successful woman shared “I just want to be loved even if I’m not doing anything”. As soon as she said that, we all shared a silent, ancient *sigh* of fatigue that came from our collective feminine lungs. Although the Feminine rising...the Feminine is also exhausted. In order to continue rising, the Feminine needs to rest & honour for a SACRED PAUSE. I will be honest with you. Only in the last few years did I begin to learn how to rest. Until then, I had no idea how tense my nervous system was. I didn't know until my insomnia served as one of my great awakening calls. The feminist liberation has served its purpose to ensure equal opportunities yet it also made it so that women are now forcing themselves to fit in the linear, masculine paradigm. ♦Moving from A to B & overriding (caffeinating) our need to rest when bleeding ♦Ignoring our voice of intuition because rationally "it doesn't make sense" ♦Swallowing our emotions because "ain't nobody got time for that" Dear powerhouse woman, I know, you have made it in life. You've broken free from your social conditioning & taken huge risks. You've created a truly beautiful reality. You've got a rich social life. Your bank account is showing badass numbers. Yet...the results may appeal to your mind whilst your body doesn't feel anything—your happiness feels more mental than embodied. You've created your greatness at the expense of what truly makes you happy: ♥nourishing relationships with the people you love ♥feeling safe to express your vulnerability ♥creating passionate love & deep sexual bliss The thing is, your masculine has been rocking the show, whilst your feminine has been starved of life in the background. In the words of @rebeccacampbell_author , you're here to create a life's work, not a season's. So, you know that running on empty is not sustainable. The time for transition (aka death & rebirth) is ripe 🍒 If you're ready to call in expert & deep support as you'll be jumpstarting your sexual & feminine awakening, I'm currently taking on 2 x Queens for a 5-month journey. Drop me a DM & let's chat🌋
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The Sacred Pause

Yesterday I sat in a woman’s circle where one powerful, highly successful woman shared “I just want to be loved even if I’m not doing anything”.

As soon as she said that, we all shared a silent, ancient *sigh* of fatigue that came from our collective feminine lungs.

Although the Feminine rising…the Feminine is also exhausted. In order to continue rising, the Feminine needs to rest & honour for a SACRED PAUSE.

I will be honest with you. Only in the last few years did I begin to learn how to rest.

Until then, I had no idea how tense my nervous system was. I didn't know until my insomnia served as one of my great awakening calls.

The feminist liberation has served its purpose to ensure equal opportunities yet it also made it so that women are now forcing themselves to fit in the linear, masculine paradigm.

♦Moving from A to B & overriding (caffeinating) our need to rest when bleeding

♦Ignoring our voice of intuition because rationally "it doesn't make sense"

♦Swallowing our emotions because "ain't nobody got time for that"

Dear powerhouse woman, I know, you have made it in life.

You've broken free from your social conditioning & taken huge risks. You've created a truly beautiful reality. You've got a rich social life. Your bank account is showing badass numbers.

Yet…the results may appeal to your mind whilst your body doesn't feel anything—your happiness feels more mental than embodied.

You've created your greatness at the expense of what truly makes you happy:

♥nourishing relationships with the people you love

♥feeling safe to express your vulnerability

♥creating passionate love & deep sexual bliss

The thing is, your masculine has been rocking the show, whilst your feminine has been starved of life in the background.

In the words of @rebeccacampbell_author , you're here to create a life's work, not a season's.

So, you know that running on empty is not sustainable.

The time for transition (aka death & rebirth) is ripe 🍒

If you're ready to call in expert & deep support as you'll be jumpstarting your sexual & feminine awakening, I'm currently taking on 2 x Queens for a 5-month journey.

Drop me a DM & let's chat🌋

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The birth of a truly WHOLE WOMAN⠀ ⠀ If you're like me, you've probably...⠀ ⠀ read all the books⠀ attended all the trainings⠀ created an incredible life⠀ ⠀ You've questioned your beliefs, taken risks, & experienced that quantum leaps are a real thing 💥⠀ ⠀ You're a powerful, driven woman, capable of creating the life you desire — and you're PROUD of the reality you have created. ⠀ ⠀ Let me see you deeper.⠀ ⠀ On paper you have it all: success, career, money, status, power. ⠀ Anything mediocre makes you wanna throw up.⠀ You have people who follow & look up to you. ⠀ ⠀ Yet what most people don't see is that, even though you learnt to not settle for your purpose, in the meanwhile you've lost touch with your body & sǝxuality. And...ended up settling in relationships. ⠀ ⠀ You followed the masculine paradigm of building success & didn't realise how along the way you abandoned your sacred feminine. ⠀ ⠀ This may look like losing sexual desire, being unable to get out of your head in intimacy & attracting men who are unavailable or can't meet you the way you desire. ⠀ ⠀ The thing is, the level to which you're tapped into your Feminine & sǝxuality affect everything else: from purpose to relationships, from money to self-worth. ⠀ ⠀ Being a powerhouse, you can't afford to not tap into the infinite reservoirs of your creative sǝxual energy, right?⠀ ⠀ Most people are knee deep in their to-do lists, running on empty & stuck in their heads. Whilst literally sitting on an undiscovered goldmine of their sexual power reservoirs 🔥⠀ ⠀ BUT YOU'RE NOT MOST PEOPLE.⠀ ⠀ You're ready to bring your passion for growth into THE area that most people will do anything they can to not look at it 👀 👉🏽 sexuality. ⠀ ⠀ My 5-month 1:1 mentorship program is designed for powerful Queens like you who value their time & therefore want to get expert support while creating a transformation that LASTS because it's done at the somatic level. ⠀ I work only with very few, Soulmate clients at a time. Do you feel ready for this kind of Initiation, gorgeous? Send me a DM saying 'soulmate' & we'll take it from there 🤍⠀ ⠀ Love fiercely,⠀ Aurika⠀ ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ 📸 @beseenandbloom
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The birth of a truly WHOLE WOMAN⠀
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If you're like me, you've probably…⠀
⠀
read all the books⠀
attended all the trainings⠀
created an incredible life⠀
⠀
You've questioned your beliefs, taken risks, & experienced that quantum leaps are a real thing 💥⠀
⠀
You're a powerful, driven woman, capable of creating the life you desire — and you're PROUD of the reality you have created. ⠀
⠀
Let me see you deeper.⠀
⠀
On paper you have it all: success, career, money, status, power. ⠀
Anything mediocre makes you wanna throw up.⠀
You have people who follow & look up to you. ⠀
⠀
Yet what most people don't see is that, even though you learnt to not settle for your purpose, in the meanwhile you've lost touch with your body & sǝxuality. And…ended up settling in relationships. ⠀
⠀
You followed the masculine paradigm of building success & didn't realise how along the way you abandoned your sacred feminine. ⠀
⠀
This may look like losing sexual desire, being unable to get out of your head in intimacy & attracting men who are unavailable or can't meet you the way you desire. ⠀
⠀
The thing is, the level to which you're tapped into your Feminine & sǝxuality affect everything else: from purpose to relationships, from money to self-worth. ⠀
⠀
Being a powerhouse, you can't afford to not tap into the infinite reservoirs of your creative sǝxual energy, right?⠀
⠀
Most people are knee deep in their to-do lists, running on empty & stuck in their heads. Whilst literally sitting on an undiscovered goldmine of their sexual power reservoirs 🔥⠀
⠀
BUT YOU'RE NOT MOST PEOPLE.⠀
⠀
You're ready to bring your passion for growth into THE area that most people will do anything they can to not look at it 👀 👉🏽 sexuality. ⠀
⠀
My 5-month 1:1 mentorship program is designed for powerful Queens like you who value their time & therefore want to get expert support while creating a transformation that LASTS because it's done at the somatic level.
⠀
I work only with very few, Soulmate clients at a time. Do you feel ready for this kind of Initiation, gorgeous? Send me a DM saying 'soulmate' & we'll take it from there 🤍⠀
⠀
Love fiercely,⠀
Aurika⠀

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📸 @beseenandbloom

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