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The other day I found myself standing next to the fridge, cutting a slice of cake. I did NOT remember how I got myself to that situation, my memory went blank! But there I was, with a knife in my right hand, devotionally cutting a piece of my favourite cashew caramel...

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ONE DAY I DECIDED TO GO CELIBATE

ONE DAY I DECIDED TO GO CELIBATE

One day I decided to go celibate. For a month. You may be laughing… But the story was not so funny as I was self-pleasuring myself to sleep most nights during the years when I suffered from insomnia – a quick-fix clit0ral 0rgasm would help me fall asleep. During that...

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MY BODY, MY TEMPLE

MY BODY, MY TEMPLE

I was carrying layers of unexpressed anger for all the moments I felt objectified by men. In the past, having those unauthorised hungry eyes on me would leave me feeling powerless for I felt unsafe to be and take up space. Those gazes, suggestive comments and...

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'How does it feel to be such a powerful man that your woman just... surrenders to you so fully?', she asked. 'How does it feel to be a woman who inspires her man to just give and give?', he replied. That was a real life conversation I had last week. It struck me because it encapsulates so beautifully the arc of polarity between our inner Masculine & Feminine essences. I hear so many women say, 'how can I make him be more masculine?'. Firstly, by reformulating the question We can't make anyone be anything. Secondly, we'll naturally inspire his Masculine by polarising into our Feminine. 🔷 So, how can she *inspire* him? The masculine craves her vibrancy, expression & fullness. When she's overflowing, she energises him with the fullness of her love. She brings him back to his feeling body & his masculine heart. This is how she *calls* him into presence. 🔷 He will respond to her calling, but not to her demands. Then he feels empowered for he has a choice whether to respond to her calling or not. If he chooses to do so, then he’ll do it fully—he will have chosen to be present with you. However, if she's telling him what to do (eg "you should do that online course to work on your dark masculine"🙈) & he goes along with her demand, then: - he won't do it with full presence. She'll feel it & will unconsciously resent his lack of presence/commitment. - she'll lose respect for him. How can she trust him if he doesn't have a strong inner authority & just complies to external demands? She'll unconsciously mistrust him. 🔷 You'll inspire him to deepen him into his masculine by: ✦ Revealing your raw, vulnerable heart moment to moment (not when things build up) ✦ Responding to his presence, touch, attention etc with your whole body ✦ Having access to the full spectrum of feminine archetypes ✦ Letting him know that you trust how he leads you ✦ Appreciating his integrity ✦ Honouring his mission Your deep devotional love will *inspire* what you crave the most—his presence, capacity to lead & choose you. I'd love to know: Men, does this resonate? Women, what does the idea of surrender & being led bring up in you?
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'How does it feel to be such a powerful man that your woman just… surrenders to you so fully?', she asked.

'How does it feel to be a woman who inspires her man to just give and give?', he replied.

That was a real life conversation I had last week. It struck me because it encapsulates so beautifully the arc of polarity between our inner Masculine & Feminine essences.

I hear so many women say, 'how can I make him be more masculine?'.

Firstly, by reformulating the question We can't make anyone be anything.

Secondly, we'll naturally inspire his Masculine by polarising into our Feminine.

🔷 So, how can she *inspire* him?

The masculine craves her vibrancy, expression & fullness.
When she's overflowing, she energises him with the fullness of her love.
She brings him back to his feeling body & his masculine heart.

This is how she *calls* him into presence.

🔷 He will respond to her calling, but not to her demands.

Then he feels empowered for he has a choice whether to respond to her calling or not. If he chooses to do so, then he’ll do it fully—he will have chosen to be present with you.

However, if she's telling him what to do (eg "you should do that online course to work on your dark masculine"🙈) & he goes along with her demand, then:

– he won't do it with full presence. She'll feel it & will unconsciously resent his lack of presence/commitment.
– she'll lose respect for him. How can she trust him if he doesn't have a strong inner authority & just complies to external demands? She'll unconsciously mistrust him.

🔷 You'll inspire him to deepen him into his masculine by:

✦ Revealing your raw, vulnerable heart moment to moment (not when things build up)
✦ Responding to his presence, touch, attention etc with your whole body
✦ Having access to the full spectrum of feminine archetypes
✦ Letting him know that you trust how he leads you
✦ Appreciating his integrity
✦ Honouring his mission

Your deep devotional love will *inspire* what you crave the most—his presence, capacity to lead & choose you.

I'd love to know:
Men, does this resonate?
Women, what does the idea of surrender & being led bring up in you?

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𝗪𝗮𝗻𝗻𝗮 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗰𝗮𝗻'𝘁 𝗺𝗲𝗲𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘁? 𝗗𝗼𝗻'𝘁.⠀ ⠀ It's not some prude advice 🙄. It's not even whether you're in a relationship with that person. ⠀ ⠀ It's about feeling SAFE 1) to reveal your deepest feelings; 2) to create a container where you can communicate what you want & need. Before you open up sǝxually.⠀ ⠀ You may have been with your partner for years. Yet if you can't trust them to share what's truly going on for you > there are things to be cleared in your bond before you can feel safe to surrender sǝxually.⠀ ⠀ Why is that? Because sǝxual energy—being the most powerful healing modality—will bring everything up that is not love... It will stir up your most deeply buried emotions. Without having a safe container that can hold them, things will get...complicated 🤯#youknowwhatimean⠀ ⠀ I remember situations in the past where. I would open up to a man sǝxually hoping that this would lead to deeper intimacy afterwards. I wasn't being honest with myself, nor was I truly honest with him—I didn't dare to reveal my heart.⠀ ⠀ Sister, your sǝxuality blossoms when your heart is opened before you open your yoni. You may ask; "how long shall I wait?" There's no timeframe here, your heart will tell you when she's safe & ready. Slow down so that you can hear her.⠀ ⠀ Bringing your heart to the bedroom is a sign of grounded self-worth & sovereignty. ⠀ ⠀ Three signs of sovereignty in sǝx:⠀ ⠀ ✧You own what comes up for you (including difficult emotions) & can express your needs & boundaries to create safety for your heart.⠀ ⠀ ✧You know that you can't lose love because love is who you are. So you don't settle for crumbs of intimacy & don't engage in connections where you can't be met the way you desire.⠀ ⠀ ✧You honour & respect the person you're with. You don't try to manipulate them to get your needs met in covert ways. Instead, you honestly share what this connection means to you & feel free to ask them the same.⠀ ⠀ Sǝxual energy amplifies what is already there. ⠀ May it be love & connection that the sǝxual energy will be amplifying. ⠀ Share 🤍 if you resonate xoxo 📷 @iamjodielouise
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𝗪𝗮𝗻𝗻𝗮 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗰𝗮𝗻'𝘁 𝗺𝗲𝗲𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘁? 𝗗𝗼𝗻'𝘁.⠀
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It's not some prude advice 🙄. It's not even whether you're in a relationship with that person. ⠀
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It's about feeling SAFE 1) to reveal your deepest feelings; 2) to create a container where you can communicate what you want & need. Before you open up sǝxually.⠀
⠀
You may have been with your partner for years. Yet if you can't trust them to share what's truly going on for you > there are things to be cleared in your bond before you can feel safe to surrender sǝxually.⠀
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Why is that? Because sǝxual energy—being the most powerful healing modality—will bring everything up that is not love… It will stir up your most deeply buried emotions. Without having a safe container that can hold them, things will get…complicated 🤯#youknowwhatimean⠀
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I remember situations in the past where. I would open up to a man sǝxually hoping that this would lead to deeper intimacy afterwards. I wasn't being honest with myself, nor was I truly honest with him—I didn't dare to reveal my heart.⠀
⠀
Sister, your sǝxuality blossoms when your heart is opened before you open your yoni. You may ask; "how long shall I wait?" There's no timeframe here, your heart will tell you when she's safe & ready. Slow down so that you can hear her.⠀
⠀
Bringing your heart to the bedroom is a sign of grounded self-worth & sovereignty. ⠀
⠀
Three signs of sovereignty in sǝx:⠀
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✧You own what comes up for you (including difficult emotions) & can express your needs & boundaries to create safety for your heart.⠀
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✧You know that you can't lose love because love is who you are. So you don't settle for crumbs of intimacy & don't engage in connections where you can't be met the way you desire.⠀
⠀
✧You honour & respect the person you're with. You don't try to manipulate them to get your needs met in covert ways. Instead, you honestly share what this connection means to you & feel free to ask them the same.⠀
⠀
Sǝxual energy amplifies what is already there. ⠀
May it be love & connection that the sǝxual energy will be amplifying.
⠀

Share 🤍 if you resonate xoxo

📷 @iamjodielouise

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𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗦𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗶𝘁 𝗮𝘀𝗸𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗱𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗺 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲... (𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝟮) As if this wasn’t enough, I’m writing this text on the plane to another country that emerged as the most bold-hearted yet organic decision. I'll be spending the next few months in Austin, Texas. These travels are not reminiscent of my hippy times, where every few months I ran from my uncomfortable reality. In contrast, right now my yoni is vibrating with euphoria—I’m participating in this joyous co-creation with the Universe. We’re a team with a shared mission called “how much more love, ease & magic am I willing to let in?". The more I'm leaning into my inner compass of emotions, following my wildest heart’s desires & taking bold decisions, the more accelerated & fulfilling my reality seems to have become. Spirit blessed me with bountiful serendipities—signs of living an aligned life. During the whole pandemic, I continuously slipped out any fear-based scenarios or lockdowns. Most importantly, I got to create incredibly profound soul bonds with some of the highest-calibre beings I have the honour to know. Feeling so held. Feeling that I belong. I'm ending this love letter to Spirit with tears in my eyes. No one will give us permission to live our greatest lives but us. No one will take the first step (or leap!) but us. By taking that first adrenaline-filled step, you'll instruct the Universe that you're willing & ready. So, fellow truth seeker, what are you ready for?
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𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝗦𝗽𝗶𝗿𝗶𝘁 𝗮𝘀𝗸𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗱𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗺 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲… (𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝟮)

As if this wasn’t enough, I’m writing this text on the plane to another country that emerged as the most bold-hearted yet organic decision. I'll be spending the next few months in Austin, Texas.

These travels are not reminiscent of my hippy times, where every few months I ran from my uncomfortable reality. In contrast, right now my yoni is vibrating with euphoria—I’m participating in this joyous co-creation with the Universe. We’re a team with a shared mission called “how much more love, ease & magic am I willing to let in?".

The more I'm leaning into my inner compass of emotions, following my wildest heart’s desires & taking bold decisions, the more accelerated & fulfilling my reality seems to have become. Spirit blessed me with bountiful serendipities—signs of living an aligned life. During the whole pandemic, I continuously slipped out any fear-based scenarios or lockdowns. Most importantly, I got to create incredibly profound soul bonds with some of the highest-calibre beings I have the honour to know. Feeling so held. Feeling that I belong.

I'm ending this love letter to Spirit with tears in my eyes.

No one will give us permission to live our greatest lives but us. No one will take the first step (or leap!) but us. By taking that first adrenaline-filled step, you'll instruct the Universe that you're willing & ready. So, fellow truth seeker, what are you ready for?

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Sexual energy is the most untapped source of energy in our human existence. Why is that? A woman that is disconnected from her sexual nature has forgotten a fundamental piece of her wholeness. "Divorcing the divine from sexuality is the most effective form of mind control" (Kaia Ra, The Sophia Code). So, in the same lines, becoming a sexually awakened woman is equally the most effective way to become whole. A sexually awakened woman is a wild force of nature. She is sovereign. She does not need a mediator (e.g. organized religion) to remind her of her divinity. Nor will she mindlessly obey authorities or follow society's dogmatic norms. Because she will have questioned her beliefs & realized her own truths. She knows that the authority of her inner voice is more authentic than any outer opinion. She can count on and knows how to access her intuition and body wisdom as a way to create inner safety. She remembers that her Womb is a portal to Source. She remembers that her 0rgasm is a meditation. She remembers that her Bleed is a monthly rite of passage. By living in a deep communion with her body, heart & sexuality, she is liberated. Sisters walking this path of sexual awakening, drop me some 💙 if this resonates xo 📷 @cimek
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Sexual energy is the most untapped source of energy in our human existence.

Why is that?

A woman that is disconnected from her sexual nature has forgotten a fundamental piece of her wholeness.

"Divorcing the divine from sexuality is the most effective form of mind control" (Kaia Ra, The Sophia Code).

So, in the same lines, becoming a sexually awakened woman is equally the most effective way to become whole.

A sexually awakened woman is a wild force of nature.

She is sovereign.

She does not need a mediator (e.g. organized religion) to remind her of her divinity.

Nor will she mindlessly obey authorities or follow society's dogmatic norms.

Because she will have questioned her beliefs & realized her own truths.

She knows that the authority of her inner voice is more authentic than any outer opinion.

She can count on and knows how to access her intuition and body wisdom as a way to create inner safety.

She remembers that her Womb is a portal to Source.
She remembers that her 0rgasm is a meditation.
She remembers that her Bleed is a monthly rite of passage.

By living in a deep communion with her body, heart & sexuality, she is liberated.

Sisters walking this path of sexual awakening, drop me some 💙 if this resonates xo

📷 @cimek

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If there's one key to becoming multi-0rgasmic, it's THIS ✦Imagine your body made up of myriads of tiny corridors. ✦Feel all of your energy (be it emotional or s/xual) running through the same pathways. ✦Know that if you block one energy, you block everything else. If your energetic pathways are clogged up with anger, pleasure won't flow either. In other words, if you suppress your emotions, you suppress your 0rgasm. I used to be a total master at this 😬 I spent years trying to meditate my anger away. It didn't go away—it transformed into insomnia. I also tried to numb my longing for love. It didn't work either—I ended up armouring my heart so much that I couldn't cry for a long time & blocked love altogether. Censoring my emotions meant living in a narrow vacuum of disconnection from myself & others. ♾️ How much chi (life force) energy you can hold & circulate is … everything. ♾️ The quality of your emotional & sǝxual energy reflects the depth of your intimate life, your sovereignty & 0rgasmicness. ♾️ In order to be able to surrender to sǝxual ecstasy, you need to be able to lean into your heart's emotionality in daily life. Yes, oftentimes that's going to feel wiiiiild & messy. The day when this picture was taken, after moving some old anger at the beach, I came back home & felt the tenderness of my little girl. I snuggled up under my blanket & I just cried until I reached the holy darkness of feeling blissfully empty. I came out feeling so alive & cracked open. Full reset. Sister, remember these two key things: Keeping your daily energetic / emotional hygiene helps you keep your 0rgasmic pathways open → i.e. emotional release is sǝxy! Leaning into your emotions trains your nervous system to hold & circulate high charge energy → key skill for awakening 0rgasmic energy. Knowing how to channel your erotic energy will elevate all of your life—self-love, relationships, business creativity, & connection to Source. In my upcoming group program, Erotically Embodied, we'll be undergoing a deep life reset starting at the emotional & sǝxual level levels. Join the waitlist now. Link in my bio. 📷 @cimek
If there's one key to becoming multi-0rgasmic, it's THIS ✦Imagine your body made up of myriads of tiny corridors. ✦Feel all of your energy (be it emotional or s/xual) running through the same pathways. ✦Know that if you block one energy, you block everything else. If your energetic pathways are clogged up with anger, pleasure won't flow either. In other words, if you suppress your emotions, you suppress your 0rgasm. I used to be a total master at this 😬 I spent years trying to meditate my anger away. It didn't go away—it transformed into insomnia. I also tried to numb my longing for love. It didn't work either—I ended up armouring my heart so much that I couldn't cry for a long time & blocked love altogether. Censoring my emotions meant living in a narrow vacuum of disconnection from myself & others. ♾️ How much chi (life force) energy you can hold & circulate is … everything. ♾️ The quality of your emotional & sǝxual energy reflects the depth of your intimate life, your sovereignty & 0rgasmicness. ♾️ In order to be able to surrender to sǝxual ecstasy, you need to be able to lean into your heart's emotionality in daily life. Yes, oftentimes that's going to feel wiiiiild & messy. The day when this picture was taken, after moving some old anger at the beach, I came back home & felt the tenderness of my little girl. I snuggled up under my blanket & I just cried until I reached the holy darkness of feeling blissfully empty. I came out feeling so alive & cracked open. Full reset. Sister, remember these two key things: Keeping your daily energetic / emotional hygiene helps you keep your 0rgasmic pathways open → i.e. emotional release is sǝxy! Leaning into your emotions trains your nervous system to hold & circulate high charge energy → key skill for awakening 0rgasmic energy. Knowing how to channel your erotic energy will elevate all of your life—self-love, relationships, business creativity, & connection to Source. In my upcoming group program, Erotically Embodied, we'll be undergoing a deep life reset starting at the emotional & sǝxual level levels. Join the waitlist now. Link in my bio. 📷 @cimek
If there's one key to becoming multi-0rgasmic, it's THIS ✦Imagine your body made up of myriads of tiny corridors. ✦Feel all of your energy (be it emotional or s/xual) running through the same pathways. ✦Know that if you block one energy, you block everything else. If your energetic pathways are clogged up with anger, pleasure won't flow either. In other words, if you suppress your emotions, you suppress your 0rgasm. I used to be a total master at this 😬 I spent years trying to meditate my anger away. It didn't go away—it transformed into insomnia. I also tried to numb my longing for love. It didn't work either—I ended up armouring my heart so much that I couldn't cry for a long time & blocked love altogether. Censoring my emotions meant living in a narrow vacuum of disconnection from myself & others. ♾️ How much chi (life force) energy you can hold & circulate is … everything. ♾️ The quality of your emotional & sǝxual energy reflects the depth of your intimate life, your sovereignty & 0rgasmicness. ♾️ In order to be able to surrender to sǝxual ecstasy, you need to be able to lean into your heart's emotionality in daily life. Yes, oftentimes that's going to feel wiiiiild & messy. The day when this picture was taken, after moving some old anger at the beach, I came back home & felt the tenderness of my little girl. I snuggled up under my blanket & I just cried until I reached the holy darkness of feeling blissfully empty. I came out feeling so alive & cracked open. Full reset. Sister, remember these two key things: Keeping your daily energetic / emotional hygiene helps you keep your 0rgasmic pathways open → i.e. emotional release is sǝxy! Leaning into your emotions trains your nervous system to hold & circulate high charge energy → key skill for awakening 0rgasmic energy. Knowing how to channel your erotic energy will elevate all of your life—self-love, relationships, business creativity, & connection to Source. In my upcoming group program, Erotically Embodied, we'll be undergoing a deep life reset starting at the emotional & sǝxual level levels. Join the waitlist now. Link in my bio. 📷 @cimek
If there's one key to becoming multi-0rgasmic, it's THIS ✦Imagine your body made up of myriads of tiny corridors. ✦Feel all of your energy (be it emotional or s/xual) running through the same pathways. ✦Know that if you block one energy, you block everything else. If your energetic pathways are clogged up with anger, pleasure won't flow either. In other words, if you suppress your emotions, you suppress your 0rgasm. I used to be a total master at this 😬 I spent years trying to meditate my anger away. It didn't go away—it transformed into insomnia. I also tried to numb my longing for love. It didn't work either—I ended up armouring my heart so much that I couldn't cry for a long time & blocked love altogether. Censoring my emotions meant living in a narrow vacuum of disconnection from myself & others. ♾️ How much chi (life force) energy you can hold & circulate is … everything. ♾️ The quality of your emotional & sǝxual energy reflects the depth of your intimate life, your sovereignty & 0rgasmicness. ♾️ In order to be able to surrender to sǝxual ecstasy, you need to be able to lean into your heart's emotionality in daily life. Yes, oftentimes that's going to feel wiiiiild & messy. The day when this picture was taken, after moving some old anger at the beach, I came back home & felt the tenderness of my little girl. I snuggled up under my blanket & I just cried until I reached the holy darkness of feeling blissfully empty. I came out feeling so alive & cracked open. Full reset. Sister, remember these two key things: Keeping your daily energetic / emotional hygiene helps you keep your 0rgasmic pathways open → i.e. emotional release is sǝxy! Leaning into your emotions trains your nervous system to hold & circulate high charge energy → key skill for awakening 0rgasmic energy. Knowing how to channel your erotic energy will elevate all of your life—self-love, relationships, business creativity, & connection to Source. In my upcoming group program, Erotically Embodied, we'll be undergoing a deep life reset starting at the emotional & sǝxual level levels. Join the waitlist now. Link in my bio. 📷 @cimek
If there's one key to becoming multi-0rgasmic, it's THIS ✦Imagine your body made up of myriads of tiny corridors. ✦Feel all of your energy (be it emotional or s/xual) running through the same pathways. ✦Know that if you block one energy, you block everything else. If your energetic pathways are clogged up with anger, pleasure won't flow either. In other words, if you suppress your emotions, you suppress your 0rgasm. I used to be a total master at this 😬 I spent years trying to meditate my anger away. It didn't go away—it transformed into insomnia. I also tried to numb my longing for love. It didn't work either—I ended up armouring my heart so much that I couldn't cry for a long time & blocked love altogether. Censoring my emotions meant living in a narrow vacuum of disconnection from myself & others. ♾️ How much chi (life force) energy you can hold & circulate is … everything. ♾️ The quality of your emotional & sǝxual energy reflects the depth of your intimate life, your sovereignty & 0rgasmicness. ♾️ In order to be able to surrender to sǝxual ecstasy, you need to be able to lean into your heart's emotionality in daily life. Yes, oftentimes that's going to feel wiiiiild & messy. The day when this picture was taken, after moving some old anger at the beach, I came back home & felt the tenderness of my little girl. I snuggled up under my blanket & I just cried until I reached the holy darkness of feeling blissfully empty. I came out feeling so alive & cracked open. Full reset. Sister, remember these two key things: Keeping your daily energetic / emotional hygiene helps you keep your 0rgasmic pathways open → i.e. emotional release is sǝxy! Leaning into your emotions trains your nervous system to hold & circulate high charge energy → key skill for awakening 0rgasmic energy. Knowing how to channel your erotic energy will elevate all of your life—self-love, relationships, business creativity, & connection to Source. In my upcoming group program, Erotically Embodied, we'll be undergoing a deep life reset starting at the emotional & sǝxual level levels. Join the waitlist now. Link in my bio. 📷 @cimek
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If there's one key to becoming multi-0rgasmic, it's THIS

✦Imagine your body made up of myriads of tiny corridors.
✦Feel all of your energy (be it emotional or s/xual) running through the same pathways.
✦Know that if you block one energy, you block everything else.

If your energetic pathways are clogged up with anger, pleasure won't flow either.

In other words, if you suppress your emotions, you suppress your 0rgasm.

I used to be a total master at this 😬

I spent years trying to meditate my anger away. It didn't go away—it transformed into insomnia.

I also tried to numb my longing for love. It didn't work either—I ended up armouring my heart so much that I couldn't cry for a long time & blocked love altogether.

Censoring my emotions meant living in a narrow vacuum of disconnection from myself & others.

♾️ How much chi (life force) energy you can hold & circulate is … everything.

♾️ The quality of your emotional & sǝxual energy reflects the depth of your intimate life, your sovereignty & 0rgasmicness.

♾️ In order to be able to surrender to sǝxual ecstasy, you need to be able to lean into your heart's emotionality in daily life.

Yes, oftentimes that's going to feel wiiiiild & messy.

The day when this picture was taken, after moving some old anger at the beach, I came back home & felt the tenderness of my little girl. I snuggled up under my blanket & I just cried until I reached the holy darkness of feeling blissfully empty.

I came out feeling so alive & cracked open. Full reset.

Sister, remember these two key things:

Keeping your daily energetic / emotional hygiene helps you keep your 0rgasmic pathways open → i.e. emotional release is sǝxy!

Leaning into your emotions trains your nervous system to hold & circulate high charge energy → key skill for awakening 0rgasmic energy.

Knowing how to channel your erotic energy will elevate all of your life—self-love, relationships, business creativity, & connection to Source.

In my upcoming group program, Erotically Embodied, we'll be undergoing a deep life reset starting at the emotional & sǝxual level levels.

Join the waitlist now. Link in my bio.

📷 @cimek

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From mental spirituality to embodied sǝxuality You know when, at the beginning of the spiritual journey, you suddenly discover the web of lies you were living in? About relationships, self-worth, sǝx, money, purpose etc? Realising you're not a victim of your circumstances feels like waking up from a bad dream. Once the weight of self-imposed limitations lifts off, the infinity of possibilities is almost overwhelming: "I don't need to work hard to be abundant" "Men are trustworthy" "I can say no & still be loved" etc And then… When you feel on top of the world, you really want everyone to know "the Truth" & "help them wake up" 🤭 This is the first stage of awakening, when we need to tell everyone about it because...we're not yet embodied. Just having an insight has little value in terms of true long-lasting change. You can go on a week-long retreat & come back with lots of mental insights. Yet the post-retreat high disappears in a week or two if it's not anchored in the body. True change always includes the BODY. Our bodies are not an obstacle to awakening, they're a vehicle. Once we embrace this, we can move to the 2nd stage of awakening—from mental to embodied spirituality. Or, in my world, to embodied sǝxuality. Here, we no longer need to preach to others about what they should eat, the courses they should take, or the relationship patterns they should rewire. The way we live our Truth INSPIRES change in others, when / if they're ready. 🌀Here's a real life example. As a woman, you can try to make your partner do a Tantra course because "you know it'll be good for him". That will never work. If he does what you demand him, you'll lose respect for his Masculine leadership & integrity. Total polarity killer. Or else you can become that which you desire. And, with your embodied love, you can inspire & invite him. He may join or not, but you'll remain truthful to yourself, sister. Bridging your sǝx, heart & Spirit is what counts. Feelin' me, sister? The waitlist for my group program, Erotically Embodied, is now open. Join if you're called to reignite desire, awaken your feminine sǝxuality & create deep, embodied love. 💥Link in my bio
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From mental spirituality to embodied sǝxuality

You know when, at the beginning of the spiritual journey, you suddenly discover the web of lies you were living in? About relationships, self-worth, sǝx, money, purpose etc?

Realising you're not a victim of your circumstances feels like waking up from a bad dream.

Once the weight of self-imposed limitations lifts off, the infinity of possibilities is almost overwhelming:

"I don't need to work hard to be abundant"
"Men are trustworthy"
"I can say no & still be loved"
etc

And then… When you feel on top of the world, you really want everyone to know "the Truth" & "help them wake up" 🤭

This is the first stage of awakening, when we need to tell everyone about it because…we're not yet embodied.

Just having an insight has little value in terms of true long-lasting change. You can go on a week-long retreat & come back with lots of mental insights. Yet the post-retreat high disappears in a week or two if it's not anchored in the body.

True change always includes the BODY.

Our bodies are not an obstacle to awakening, they're a vehicle.

Once we embrace this, we can move to the 2nd stage of awakening—from mental to embodied spirituality. Or, in my world, to embodied sǝxuality.

Here, we no longer need to preach to others about what they should eat, the courses they should take, or the relationship patterns they should rewire.

The way we live our Truth INSPIRES change in others, when / if they're ready.

🌀Here's a real life example.

As a woman, you can try to make your partner do a Tantra course because "you know it'll be good for him". That will never work. If he does what you demand him, you'll lose respect for his Masculine leadership & integrity. Total polarity killer.

Or else you can become that which you desire. And, with your embodied love, you can inspire & invite him. He may join or not, but you'll remain truthful to yourself, sister.

Bridging your sǝx, heart & Spirit is what counts.

Feelin' me, sister?

The waitlist for my group program, Erotically Embodied, is now open.

Join if you're called to reignite desire, awaken your feminine sǝxuality & create deep, embodied love.

💥Link in my bio

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